ONTARIO-Financial struggles due to the high cost of living are adding stress to the already challenging job of being a parent, according to the RBC Family Finances Poll: Parenting Edition, which surveyed parents of children up to the age of 17 about their day-to-day expenses earlier this year.
The poll found that, while over half (56%) reported their budget is too tight to afford what they want for their children, almost half (45%) felt pressured to buy more for their children than they can afford. This can place parents in a particularly uncomfortable position at this time of the year.
“Trying to balance needs versus wants for your children can be even more challenging during the holiday season, especially when you’re finding it difficult to cover everyday costs throughout the year,” explained Dawn Tam, B.C.-based Senior Manager, Regional Financial Planning Consultant, RBC Financial Planning. “This is when a conversation about your finances with an advisor can help you explore options for managing the trade-offs, so holiday spending doesn’t get out of hand.”
As the RBC poll revealed, it’s ongoing costs related to raising their children that parents are finding the most worrisome.
- 72% were caught by surprise by how much these costs had increased over the past year
- 60% reported their household budget has never been stretched so thin
- 52% admitted they had never been so stressed about covering these expenses
- And the vast majority (94%) is concerned about these costs rising even higher in the new year.
Then there are the annual ‘extras’ that aren’t always included in family budgets: school supplies and field trips; extracurricular sports, music, dance, arts and crafts and art activities; as well as March Break and summer camps.
“Parents often underestimate how much extras add up over the year, which can bring some unexpected pressure on family finances. Smaller costs can quickly reach hundreds of dollars, while bigger expenses can run up into thousands,” noted Tam. “As a parent of young children myself, I understand the desire to give a child every advantage possible in life. The red flag we raise here when advising our clients is to make sure the choices they’re making won’t cripple their current – or future – finances.”
The RBC poll findings underline this is a real possibility. Two-thirds (67%) of respondents stated they have, or would, sacrifice their own financial future to spend what they can on their children today. Also, 41% have dipped into their savings or emergency fund and 33% have taken on debt to cover family costs.
Tam added that the financial challenges parents are facing right now are even more difficult for anyone raising children on their own.
“Trying to manage today’s high costs in a single income household can be so much more challenging – let alone trying to save for the future they’re hoping to achieve, for themselves and their children,” said Tam. “The good news is we can often help single parents as well as couples uncover hidden opportunities to stretch their budgets further and make the most of their cash flow.”
